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everyone has different perceptions on every thing.
coming to the topic of betrayal.
in my point of view,
even if your bf breaks up with you and only got together with another girl after a week,
it still counts as a form of betrayal.
many may think that
well, he didn't exactly two-timed you, he gave a courtesy call of breaking up with you first.
but hey, he have already stopped loving you since months ago
and he made it a point to use his actions to show you,
and god knows when he started having feelings and hanging out with that girl.
people who have no clues of what's going on definitely thinks that you got dumped for another girl,
in a crude way, you got zao-sai.
some may agree and some might not,
i can't get everyone to agree with me because that's not the way things works.
things that i know might not be the truth
but the one person who should be clarifying it isn't doing it,
so whats the point of having people speaking up for him,
even so, does it really matters anymore ?
you decided on leaving and so leave,
dont turn back anymore,
because the person might not be waiting for someone who no longer loves her.
and they say people's lifestyle changes after every incident,
i agree.
because mine's totally different but i'm living the best of out it.
every minute is well-spent,
not like the past where i've practically slept my way through my 22 yrs.
so whats your perception of betrayal ?
you gave up your chance when you left.